So here's an updated list of what I've found. Sadly, I have yet to find one in California! UPDATE - just found Sacramento - Eeh gads. UPDATE 9/19 - looks like Landmark is getting it so a bunch more California theaters added - not on the webpages yet, but many of the theaters have put on their facebook pages. I put these below.
All are on 10/26 it seems
CALIFORNIA Berkeley - California Theater Palo Alto - Aquarius Theater Sacramento - Tower Theater San Diego - Landmark Hillcrest Theater Santa Cruz - Del Mar Theater
So remember how my local theater said it wasn't confirmed despite being on the website? Well, today they are off the list. Seems more than a few theaters are gone. Luckily there's one 40 minutes away, but I must say I'm surprised what cities are missing: Los Angeles first and foremost, but also Phoenix, Portland and others.