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Post by Rain on Nov 22, 2005 16:18:32 GMT -5
What fucking descrimination!!! If she was a guy, she would gotten 25 years at the least. Anyone can argue saying it's different with a boy being molested or abused than girls. They haven't gotten a fucking clue! sorry, this shit pisses me off!
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Post by Dominic on Nov 22, 2005 17:25:28 GMT -5
remeber when holly and jessica dissapeared, well around that time, the exact same thing happened to a 9 year old boy, and it bearly made one paper
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Post by giggergrl on Nov 22, 2005 18:25:50 GMT -5
that's just not right.. does not mater if the child/minor is male or female... one thing that applies to all children - IT IS NEVER THEIR FAULT ! ~ sexual abuse in general.. I can say I am close to 3 females that this happened to when they were younger.. it is a most serious topic for me..oh, and my one friend's husband was abused .. I have also worked with a number of male and female students who have been sexually violated. ~ it affects people differently as we are all quite different.. but it is painful as I have watched the "side effects" manifest themselves in a variety of ways WITH FRIENDS and one relative : leading to sexual promiscuity, or the opposite - inability to have relations , difficulty with intimacy in general, drug abuse and alcohol abuse and other self-destructive behaviors, eating disorders, lack of self-worth,, anger and rage ! and my one friend had waking dreams like ppl with post-traumatic stress disorder get, she fantasized about running her neighbor OVER, the offender, with her car.. repeatedly ! when she read he was FINALLY charged in the paper.. ~ AT LEAST THERE ARE PROGRAMS NOW THAT MANDATE OFFENDERS REGISTER.. I AM SURE IT IS NOT 100% BUT.. ~ they have all but one gone on to have healthy relationships but there are still some DEEP WOUNDS there, that may never go away ... ON THE UP, MY ONE FRIEND SAID, AFTER AWHILE IT DOES FADE A BIT, AND LATER IT JUST BECOMES PART OF WHO YOU ARE.. SHE IS IN HER 30'S NOW AND ABLE TO VIEW IT THIS WAY AND HAS RECEIVED HELP AND SUPPORT.. THANKS FOR LISTENING.IT IS PAINFUL AND IT DID NOT EVEN HAPPEN TO ME ! BUT THE ONES I LOVE..
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