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Post by daysleeper on Sept 2, 2003 21:42:22 GMT -5
found this on Rain's site (surprised you never posted it rain?) and its good stuff. it was originally from the website askmen.com its the top10 traits men want in a girlfriend: 10. She's independent 9. She's intelligent 8. She's sexual 7. She's beautiful 6. She respects you 5. She lets you be a man 4. She's nagless 3. She gets along with friends & family 2. She loves you (for who you are and doesn't want to change you) 1. She makes you want to be a better man here's the link to rain's site for the full article - with detailed explanations: clix.to/rainoasis(scroll down to the bottom of the page, past Heidi Klum's ample breasts ;D ) i notice rain said its the worst list he's ever seen, but i completely disagree. it includes everything i'd want in a girlfriend (although obviously theres a lot missing - the most glaring omission is sense of humour) And the order is a bit wrong (intelligence at number 9? ) But i agree with most of it, especially the top 3. They are the big ones. I first heard of number 1, "She makes you want to be a better man", in the film "As good as it gets" (great, great film btw!) and it has stuck with me ever since. i couldn't agree more with it. Its not about changing to suit another person, its about wanting to change yourself, to better yourself, because of this person. And i think anyone who makes you feel this way is definitely a very special person to you. and as the article says - 'it could be love!'
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Post by Rain on Sept 3, 2003 1:36:42 GMT -5
Wow someone looked at the site. I have been working on the site a bit but it be ready soon. I got heidi Klum media coming up and another section here's my order 10.She's independent ( I think independence ruins a relationship. if it was Co-dependence then it be at number 9 ) 9.She gets along with friends & family 8. She's intelligent 7.She's nagless 6.She's beautiful 5.She lets you be a man 4.She's sexual 3.She respects you 2.She loves you (for who you are and doesn't want to change you) 1.She makes you want to be a better man
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Post by mattmightsay on Sept 3, 2003 1:46:26 GMT -5
i want kandi!! and then i will tell! you
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Post by Rain on Sept 3, 2003 1:50:28 GMT -5
i want kandi!! and then i will tell! you Cut it out use yahoo or msn for your love nest. The singles here don't need to hear it ;D
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Post by mattmightsay on Sept 3, 2003 2:38:03 GMT -5
sorry mate!
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Post by DarkWaterfalls on Sept 3, 2003 5:21:52 GMT -5
LOL well reading that list makes me wonder why am still single
But the top three are definetely true for me-i would not be in a relationship with anyone who I felt unable to fulfill the top three with as it would kind of be pointless
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Post by daysleeper on Sept 3, 2003 11:28:35 GMT -5
10.She's independent ( I think independence ruins a relationship. if it was Co-dependence then it be at number 9 ) i think independance is essential in a relationship. you have to remain your own person. a friend of mine recently went through a break up and came out of it realising that he needed to focus on himself more, and not rely and depond upon another person. i like independant women! shows strength of character
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Post by mape on Sept 3, 2003 20:58:03 GMT -5
the list is good. but some things could change their places depending on how the woman is.
i'd move 2 up to 1 and move 7 and 9 up in the list
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Post by DarkWaterfalls on Sept 4, 2003 6:20:31 GMT -5
I always think independence is hard to define within a relationship
I've always been the sort of person to do their own thing but then i've also been prepared to give up parts of my independence in order to support other people
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Post by NoelsGirlie on Sept 4, 2003 12:32:27 GMT -5
:-/looks like i'll die lonely then
lol
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Post by daysleeper on Sept 4, 2003 12:36:23 GMT -5
:-/looks like i'll die lonely then lol lol ;D - well i'm sure thats not true. and i know that as long as rain is alive - you'll always have someone
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Post by NoelsGirlie on Sept 4, 2003 12:39:55 GMT -5
lol ;D - well i'm sure thats not true. and i know that as long as rain is alive - you'll always have someone aww you can always reply on rain!
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Post by daysleeper on Sept 4, 2003 12:50:29 GMT -5
aww you can always reply on rain! yeah he'll be there till the end. So what do you women look for in a man? i need some hints so that i can make myself remotely attractive ;D
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Post by DarkWaterfalls on Sept 4, 2003 13:33:17 GMT -5
well what i look for in a man well someone who will tell me honestly what he thinks-but not ram his view down my throat. I know i have a bad habit of snapping when people tell me something i don't want to hear-but I do always go away and think about what was said and i am trying to get away from snapping
Someone who loves me for what am i, and who can have a serious side to then as well as a completely insane side to them
But i'm falrly open minded about the type of man i want to meet-because as i see i want know what my ideal man is like until i meet him
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Post by Rain on Sept 4, 2003 15:09:01 GMT -5
aww you can always reply on rain! If you are not married by 26 then I marry you or something like that You never be alone
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Post by mape on Sept 4, 2003 20:41:14 GMT -5
So what do you women look for in a man? i need some hints so that i can make myself remotely attractive ;D ok ladies, i can vision many long hours and sleepless nites with the way this one is headed
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Post by NoelsGirlie on Sept 5, 2003 2:09:51 GMT -5
oooh my man has to make me laugh just at the slightest comment he makes but hes got to be soppy lol not over the top soppy but so he makes me feel wanted and warm. i've gotta thing bout bad boys, if they act bad im totally hooked but i like them 'bad boys' to have a soft side. like when you get to know them they'll be all cuddling n that...then when they are out having fun they would become like this 'hard' person lol its weird
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Post by NoelsGirlie on Sept 5, 2003 6:53:12 GMT -5
u got me!! All I look for in a guy is sum1 that'll give me everything I deserve... simple!... already found 'im!! awwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww sweet!!!
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Post by daysleeper on Sept 5, 2003 14:06:50 GMT -5
aww yeah thats sweet. i've also found the woman i know can give me everything i want - i just haven't met her yet! anyone know when britney is heading to england? going back to the original list, intelligence should be higher. i could never be happy with someone who wasn't smart. i'm not talking like mega brain box, but they'd need a certain level of common sense, an interest in the outside world, that kind of thing. I hate the Liam gallagher attitude of 'if it doesn't instantly interest me, its not worth talking or thinking about'
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Post by Rain on Sept 5, 2003 14:19:48 GMT -5
Well I can be an real assh*le sometimes or maga sweet. That's what you get with me. As for a girl I want? Sweet ,soft,a bit kinky helps , cute, pretty out going,a bit reserve sometimes, and a real girlie type of girl. I got some women in mind right now
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Post by daysleeper on Sept 5, 2003 14:22:16 GMT -5
a bit kinky?? into whips and leather pants huh rainy? i have some friends you would get along well with ;D
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Post by Rain on Sept 5, 2003 14:25:22 GMT -5
a bit kinky?? into whips and leather pants huh rainy? i have some friends you would get along well with ;D No I just mean who likes sex
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Post by kandaii on Sept 6, 2003 5:16:14 GMT -5
a bit kinky?? into whips and leather pants huh rainy? Don't forget the handcuffs
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Post by Rain on Sept 6, 2003 5:56:05 GMT -5
Don't forget the handcuffs I don't mind handcuffs and blindfolds ;D
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Post by kandaii on Sept 7, 2003 1:54:46 GMT -5
I don't mind handcuffs and blindfolds ;D hmm blindfolds... never thought of that one... thanks rain
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